You can find the comment here:
http://orthosphere.org/2013/05/20/must-a-traditional-man-accept-modern-marriage/
Dear Alan,
You write,
“We must also point out an uncomfortable truth: You may bear some of legitimate responsibility for your wife’s unhappiness. Not all female complaints are frivolous. Although it is wrong for the woman to allow these complaints to drive her to divorce, the man should not goad her into doing evil. If you can change those of your behaviors that ought to be changed, to prevent the great evil of divorce, more the better. Do whatever it takes, short of sin or dishonor, to prevent divorce.”
Alan, your fundamental sin is that you are bearing false witness against men, blaming them for the fact that women are destroying the modern family. Bearing false witness is a violation of the Law of Moses, which Jesus came to fulfill. So, in short, you are violating your own comments policy, by flagrantly violating the Law of Moses and Jesus, and thusly disrespecting and dishonoring them.
Alan, you are addressing men you do not even know, and you write, “”We must also point out an uncomfortable truth: You may bear some of legitimate responsibility for your wife’s unhappiness.”
That is castigating and impugning men you do not even know. You are bearing false witness against men.
Then you accuse men that you do not know of goading women into evil, “the man should not goad her into doing evil.”
That is castigating and impugning men you do not even know. You are bearing false witness against men.
Then you tell men, that you do not know, that there is something wrong with them:
“If you can change those of your behaviors that ought to be changed, to prevent the great evil of divorce, more the better.”
That is castigating, impugning, an dinsulting men you do not even know. You are bearing false witness against men, accusing them of causing divorce.
Alan, please adhere to your own comments policy, as Jesus teaches the Golden Rule, “Do unto others as ye would have them do unto you.”
Please refrain from insulting Jesus et al. per your very own rules.
Best,
GBFM
